12 THINGS EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE AVOID

Emotional intelligence, or EQ, is simply the keen ability to perceive, control, and evaluate the emotions of yourself and those around you. Some experts believe that a person’s EQ outweighs their IQ in terms of their success and how they fare in social relationships. While it’s still debatable whether emotional intelligence can be learned or if it’s an inborn characteristic, people with high emotional awareness generally avoid the following actions and behaviors: 1. They don’t let their feelings go unchecked. According to psychologist and author Daniel Goleman, one of the pioneers of emotional intelligence, self-awareness is one of the five … Continue reading 12 THINGS EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE AVOID

RICH YET POOR.

RICH YET POOR BY: GIVEN MOYO We have taller buildings, but short tempers: wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints: we spend more, but have less: we buy more but enjoy it less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time, we have more degrees, but less common sense: more knowledge, but less judgement: more experts, but more problems: more medicine, but less wellness. We have multiplied our possesions, but reduced our values. We talk too much; love too seldom and lie too often. We’ve learnt how to make a living but not a life: we’ve added years … Continue reading RICH YET POOR.

THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN EVERYTHING FALLS APART…

Things to Remember When Everything Falls Apart “Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.” – Marilyn Monroe In this story book of life, things rarely go as planned. However, the hiccups along the way serve as valuable lessons in our evolution as spiritual beings. Also, the challenges we meet help us appreciate the victories even more, and give us perspective on the beauty within those difficult times. With the Complexities of modern life, it’s virtually impossible to avoid some sort of problem. The key to solving the problems lies in how you deal with them, and … Continue reading THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN EVERYTHING FALLS APART…

A NEGATIVE MIND WILL NEVER GIVE YOU A POSITIVE LIFE.

The human psyche has so many funky glitches that it’s a wonder we can all can get along. Actually, on the whole we’re having a very, very difficult time getting along, aren’t we? This is why positive thinking resources are so important. They help us remain on the positive side of the mental equation. Still, what do we do when negativity creeps in? Well, negativity begins in the mind, so let’s start with how it manifests and then discuss steps to take that will neutralize. Negativity can spontaneously manifest – and it often does so in a disturbing way. You … Continue reading A NEGATIVE MIND WILL NEVER GIVE YOU A POSITIVE LIFE.

INVOLVEMENT OF MEN IN EMPOWERING WOMEN

Involvement of men in women empowerment “A RESPONSIBLE MAN” INVOLVEMENT OF MEN IN EMPOWERING WOMEN THEME: “A RESPONSIBLE MAN” BACKGROUND Cultural practices, beliefs and norms in the African societies have created a social imbalance between the males and the females. The society itself created various expectations based on gender roles that has seen an imbalance and the suppression of the other group. Culture has failed to understand that gender issues are not static hence they are dynamic in as much as culture itself. Culturally as the African society we have managed to be dynamic by adopting other cultural traits from … Continue reading INVOLVEMENT OF MEN IN EMPOWERING WOMEN

BLESSINGS COME IN DISGUISE.

Blessings Come In Disguise The only survivor of a shipwreck washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements and to store his few possessions. But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, with the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stung with grief … Continue reading BLESSINGS COME IN DISGUISE.