! BY: GIVEN MOYO There are no painless, foolproof guarantees: healing a relationship involves shared effort and risk. I have trust that ultimately you will forgive me and put the offense behind you, and you have to believe that i am sincere about changing. Healing wounded relationships is a two-person job. Your job is to work at trusting me again, and mine is to provide you with evidence that i am trustworthy. When we do that we invite one another’s co-operation, encourage each other and shorten the distance that separates us. Making a relationship work means deciding you have real … Continue reading HEALING WOUNDED RELATIONSHIPS, PART 3
Things to Remember When Everything Falls Apart “Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.” – Marilyn Monroe In this story book of life, things rarely go as planned. However, the hiccups along the way serve as valuable lessons in our evolution as spiritual beings. Also, the challenges we meet help us appreciate the victories even more, and give us perspective on the beauty within those difficult times. With the Complexities of modern life, it’s virtually impossible to avoid some sort of problem. The key to solving the problems lies in how you deal with them, and … Continue reading THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN EVERYTHING FALLS APART…
If you want to feel the most powerful energy in the Universe, make love. It’s one of the most unforgettable experiences anyone can ever encounter. Simply put, making love is creating energy, sourced directly from the divine. Usually this is a collective effort between two people. But contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to get in-between the sheets to “do it”. There are many ways to create this divine energy, and you can find an outlet for it in many different facets of life. Focus on the positive When you remember that making love is simply creating love energy, … Continue reading FIVE WAYS OF MAKING LOVE WITHOUT HAVING SEX.
The human psyche has so many funky glitches that it’s a wonder we can all can get along. Actually, on the whole we’re having a very, very difficult time getting along, aren’t we? This is why positive thinking resources are so important. They help us remain on the positive side of the mental equation. Still, what do we do when negativity creeps in? Well, negativity begins in the mind, so let’s start with how it manifests and then discuss steps to take that will neutralize. Negativity can spontaneously manifest – and it often does so in a disturbing way. You … Continue reading A NEGATIVE MIND WILL NEVER GIVE YOU A POSITIVE LIFE.
Involvement of men in women empowerment “A RESPONSIBLE MAN” INVOLVEMENT OF MEN IN EMPOWERING WOMEN THEME: “A RESPONSIBLE MAN” BACKGROUND Cultural practices, beliefs and norms in the African societies have created a social imbalance between the males and the females. The society itself created various expectations based on gender roles that has seen an imbalance and the suppression of the other group. Culture has failed to understand that gender issues are not static hence they are dynamic in as much as culture itself. Culturally as the African society we have managed to be dynamic by adopting other cultural traits from … Continue reading INVOLVEMENT OF MEN IN EMPOWERING WOMEN
Blessings Come In Disguise The only survivor of a shipwreck washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements and to store his few possessions. But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, with the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stung with grief … Continue reading BLESSINGS COME IN DISGUISE.
Just sitting waiting for healing to happen doesn’t help: it only lengthens the process. Working to become a positive influence is what moves things forward. If you want help: Listen. When your loved one needs to talk, listen without trying to defend, explain, rationalise or excuse your behavior. Don’t try to correct their misperceptions or lessen their pain by minimising it. Validate. Don’t tell somebody, You should feel that way. When people talk about their pain, often they are doing the work necessary to help them heal. By letting them know their feelings are legitimate rather than waking them feel … Continue reading HEALING WOUNDED RELATIONSHIPS PART 2
HEALING WOUNDED RELATIONSHIPS . HE HEALS THE BROKENHEARTED AND BINDS UP THEIR WOUNDS “psalms 147: 3” It happens everyday. Maybe its happening ryt now in your once- happy home/life: unrealistic expectations, infidelity & broken promises destroying the dream of lifelong love & trust. Thankfully God is the healer of broken relationships & violated trust. When sum1 u love is hurting: 1. Give it time. Healing is a process, not an event. Wounds of the heart heal slowly. Maybe you are thinking, but i have apologised over & over. How long will it take them to let it go & start … Continue reading HEALING WOUNDED RELATIONSHIPS
All is well that ends well so they say, yeah all that begins well, as you view it well, so shall it be. All is well, all is well, all is well. Continue reading All is well