It seems that we as a society have forgotten some important values, and are generally becoming more immature as a result. There doesn’t seem to be a differentiation between manliness and egocentric chauvinist behavior in a lot of people’s minds, which is truly sad. You have people saying things like 30 is the new 20, and grown men acting like entitled spoiled children. The truth is that once you’ve stepped into your mid-20s you should have gained enough life experience to be able to behave like a mature adult. The thing is, few young people – and too few older … Continue reading THINGS MATURE MEN DON’T DO.


Emotional intelligence, or EQ, is simply the keen ability to perceive, control, and evaluate the emotions of yourself and those around you. Some experts believe that a person’s EQ outweighs their IQ in terms of their success and how they fare in social relationships. While it’s still debatable whether emotional intelligence can be learned or if it’s an inborn characteristic, people with high emotional awareness generally avoid the following actions and behaviors: 1. They don’t let their feelings go unchecked. According to psychologist and author Daniel Goleman, one of the pioneers of emotional intelligence, self-awareness is one of the five … Continue reading 12 THINGS EMOTIONALLY INTELLIGENT PEOPLE AVOID


Things to Remember When Everything Falls Apart “Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.” – Marilyn Monroe In this story book of life, things rarely go as planned. However, the hiccups along the way serve as valuable lessons in our evolution as spiritual beings. Also, the challenges we meet help us appreciate the victories even more, and give us perspective on the beauty within those difficult times. With the Complexities of modern life, it’s virtually impossible to avoid some sort of problem. The key to solving the problems lies in how you deal with them, and … Continue reading THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN EVERYTHING FALLS APART…


Involvement of men in women empowerment “A RESPONSIBLE MAN” INVOLVEMENT OF MEN IN EMPOWERING WOMEN THEME: “A RESPONSIBLE MAN” BACKGROUND Cultural practices, beliefs and norms in the African societies have created a social imbalance between the males and the females. The society itself created various expectations based on gender roles that has seen an imbalance and the suppression of the other group. Culture has failed to understand that gender issues are not static hence they are dynamic in as much as culture itself. Culturally as the African society we have managed to be dynamic by adopting other cultural traits from … Continue reading INVOLVEMENT OF MEN IN EMPOWERING WOMEN


Blessings Come In Disguise The only survivor of a shipwreck washed up on a small, uninhabited island. He prayed feverishly for God to rescue him, and every day he scanned the horizon for help, but none seemed forthcoming. Exhausted, he eventually managed to build a little hut out of driftwood to protect him from the elements and to store his few possessions. But then one day, after scavenging for food, he arrived home to find his little hut in flames, with the smoke rolling up to the sky. The worst had happened; everything was lost. He was stung with grief … Continue reading BLESSINGS COME IN DISGUISE.